From: Bob (dlvdisc@geekbabe.com)
Date: Tue Aug 03 2010 - 16:58:59 CDT
Thank you very much for putting your own connotation on my words,
Kumiko. That's called turning my words around to suit YOUR misguided
truth.
I said the 250lb in spandex was INAPPROPRIATE. Of course you knew that.
The truth is...the girls of our lifestyle actually appear, most of the
time, 5-15yrs younger that their cronological age.(by the way you should
never ask a woman her age) Rule #1 in the how to treat a woman handbook.
so should they dress by actual age or how they appear to be. Don't you
look younger than you are when en femme?
Many of them didn't have a chance to experience their femininity when
they were younger and subsequently do, at times over-indulge in it. Too
much make-up, too short dresses or skirts(we have more to hide than
those darn genetic females) and sometimes they need guidance from our
more experienced people.
"Girls just want to have fun"
There were at least 8 or 10 girls in long dresses and some fancy enough
for a formal gathering. I was in a suit and tie, definately formal and
this girl was in a what I KNOW(cause I've been to them) was an
extravagant ballgown.
SO WHAT.
"Girls just want to have fun"
In a group as large as ours there are going to be people that are
uncomfortable. Let's make that a guideline that it is OK to be
uncomfortable.
My own personal opinion is that after all these years with the same
guidelines, maybe it's time for a change. Time doesn't stand still. Why
should we.
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