Re: Consideration of others (was Re: Survey comments, part 2)

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From: Joan (dlvdisc@geekbabe.com)
Date: Fri Jun 01 2007 - 22:53:56 CDT


>>But what about the genderqueer, and genderf*** people in
>>the world.

>A good set of questions for next year's survey might be on the
>attitude of our attendees toward GQ and GF individuals.

I agree, this issue needs to be addressed, and soon.

>As of this time, the expression of most genderqueers would not be
>in line with our guidelines for dress, which proscribes either
>complete boymode or complete girlmode.

Then perhaps we should change our guidelines so we could be more
inclusive.

>It's my opinion that genderqueer individuals are not attracted to
>events such as Diva Las Vegas, making this somewhat self-regulating.

I would think there are genderqueer individuals who would be
attracted to DLV. Perhaps i am one of them.

>As you probably know, there's ongoing discussion (both in the GQ
>and TG communities) as to whether genderqueer does or does not
>occupy a point on the TG spectrum.

>Some say it does, others (often times GQs themselves) reject this,
>arguing that the TG community is still gender-binary.

I wish the TG community was not binary. Sometimes I just don't fit in.

>As an aside, our local TG support group has recently affirmed that
>we welcome GQs as well as other gender-nonconforming and gender-
>questioning individuals.

If they can do it, why not us?

>As to genderf*ck (skag-drag and similar styles), it's definitely
>been a no-no at DLV and probably will be indefinitely.

What is skag drag?

>This is a blatant in-your-face sociological and political
>statement. I don't think the style would be welcome at DLV, and
>is in particular inappropriate for our mainstream activities.

Why not? I'd be OK with it.

Do I belong at DLV. If not, I will gladly move on.

Sincerely, Joan, fighting the good fight.


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