From: annie (dlvdisc@geekbabe.com)
Date: Sun Feb 11 2007 - 22:26:45 CST
>Having read the entire site, I understand that admirers are
>welcome.
Yes, admirers are welcome. I say that sincerely both as a
DLV organizer and as an individual.
>I am curious if there tend to be many or just a few?
We've had admirers most years at DLV, but they have been in the
minority.
Demographically speaking, most of our attendees are TG, M to F,
falling somewhere on the TG spectrum.
The largest non-TG group would be female (GG) SOs, and those would
be about 10-15% of the total.
Men (admirers, male SOs, guests, etc.) make up 4-5% or so of the total.
Please don't be discouraged by this, we need more guys! :)
>Would you say that people are open to admirers and invite them to
>participate or would I more than likely end up in the corner by
>myself on the outsdie looking in so to speak?
Knowing our people as I do, as long as you're personable and behave
like a gentleman, you'll have no problem fitting in with the group.
>I would appreciate anything that you could offer on this
>subject. Thanks!!
If you haven't done so already, please read our Admirers Guide:
http://www.geekbabe.com/dlv/admir1.html
The one major faux pas that an admirer can make is coming on too
strong. There are many variations on this theme, any of which will
make one unwelcome very fast. Speaking very freely, as long as you
avoid coming off like your only reason for being at DLV is to get
your ashes hauled, you should be fine.
Please let me know if you have any specific questions or concerns
or you would like more detail on anything.
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