From: Rosaliy (dlvdisc@geekbabe.com)
Date: Sat Mar 11 2006 - 08:07:50 CST
This is likely to have been answered already however, here's my 2 cents
worth.
While I have yet to have a problem in this regard, I have had people
make comments to those they are with - I remember one woman saying to
her husband "OMG!! Did you see that?" - I laughed, made no comment and
went on my way just like I belonged there - which of course I did at
the time. I find that most of the time however, people will see what
they expect to see as long as you behave as you present yourself. Be
secure in yourself and confident in yourself and this will prevent most
problems that might happen. Still, there is the person who will make
trouble just to do so. Just be aware of those around you and, even
though you make no remarks yourself, smile and be on your way about
your business.
Public Toilets: this has been covered in other mailings and
informations but it bears repeating. IF you have a problem, politely
apologize and make a strategic exit. Try to avoid long waiting lines
to get in, also avoid grouping with others with you to reduce attention
you may receive. The laws are not clear as I read them but clearly a
person dressed as a female, whether or not she is one, would cause a
stir if she went into a mens toilet and vice versa. Act the part you
are dressed. Be polite and avoid unnecessary interactions. It was
also recommended that you don't use the public restrooms to adjust your
makeup. This exposes you to too much scrutiny I believe and should be
avoided.
For what it's worth.
Rosaliy
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