From: kumiko yvonne watanabe (dlvdisc@geekbabe.com)
Date: Tue Aug 03 2010 - 05:24:20 CDT
Can we clear up what issue or issues are being
discussed, for I see at least three, and there
could be more, and maybe we should try to
separate them to clarify and narrow the focus of
discussion on each issue.
1. Being hyper-critical of what other are wearing
2. When one's behavior or dress negatively affects
another's or other people's enjoyment of a event.
3. Review and revision of the whole dress code
On another issue:
>If you can't, then maybe DLV is not the right fit for you.
It looks like right now all three mixed up like a
serving of spaghetti and we are again in another
discussion where we are starting to point fingers
at each other with the above pointed comment:
"Maybe DLV is not the right fit for you."
directed at nameless individuals, which may
fuel more heated exchanges of rhetoric, and it
doesn't accomplish, solve, or resolve anything.
Now with this comment, it becomes a judgment
by someone to someone else telling them not to
attend DLV. This expands a issue of dress to
who is qualified to be the right kind of person to
attend DLV.
This comment in itself directly can and will turn away
more people from DLV too.
Thank you.
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